First, you must understand that
only you can determine your happiness. If you are unhappy with your current job,
you can either look for another or stick with it. Anytime you are feeling stuck
on a decision such as this one, remember that you can change your ways to enjoy
your much deserved happiness.
Secondly, realize there are going
to be obstacles that you cannot control. Do not worry over the things out of
your control; it only adds unnecessary stress. It is okay to be aware of
issues, but do not get wrapped up into changing them if it is beyond your
means.
Thirdly, stop comparing yourself
to other people! We grow up constantly comparing ourselves to one another to
ensure we do not stand out from the crowd in a poor way. When you feel
accomplished for your work, do not allow others’ comments and opinions take that
satisfaction away from you. Tune out the negativity and solely focus on what
makes YOU happy, not those around you.
Fourthly, stay authentic to
yourself. Understand your limits and how large of risks you are willing to
take. Stand your ground on actions that cross the line morally for you. Review
your personal values often and do not take action on something you will regret.
Fifthly, smile and laugh often. Your
facial expressions are closely linked to your emotions. Take time to chat and
joke (appropriately, of course) with fellow teammates to lighten the mood of
stress and pressure you may be feeling at work.
Hopefully with these tips you can
find your own happiness at your work. Work does not have to be stressful and worrying
all the time. When trying to decide which job offer to accept, ensure you are
choosing the position that you will be excited to go to on a Monday morning. If
you look forward to going to work in the morning, your happiness will certainly
shine!